queeranarchism:

mallk-z:

lakemichiganbaby:

btw being excessively nonconfrontational is NOT a positive trait. it does not mean u are “too nice” or just too kind to hurt people, it means u have a problem communicating and you need to work on it.

There are people in the notes saying that the alternative reason is that they’re doing it because of trauma and i gotta say that

1) same. I did have this same problem and reason for doing it.

2) this is not actually an alternate reason. You guys also have a problem communicating and while you can trace exactly WHY you have trouble communicating that doesn’t mean it’s okay to treat everyone like they’re potentially your former abuser and that you DO still need to work on this.

‘This behavior comes from trauma’ and ‘This behavior is harmful to you, to others and to your relationships with others’ are two truths that can co-exist, and that do co-exist quite frequently.

cerigg:

leftie and rightie

its-the-sa:

its him.. the april fool…

tachipaws:

NEVER FORGET

moonlit-sunflower-books:

friends to lovers never had a bad track. “scared i’ll ruin what we have” SLAPS. “friendship cuddles while secretly dying inside” BANGER. “teasing each other and holding eye contact for a little too long” KILLS ME. and don’t even get me STARTED on “screaming i love you in the middle of a heated argument.”

jaskierstransmascswag:

Reblog to give your nonbinary friend a sword

withered-rose-with-thorns:

♕ e.s. // don’t leave me alone in this world.

macklesufficient:

guide 4 teens

• tell the cops nothing
• tell the paramedics everything
• ur eyebrows are fine